In a city like Washington, D.C., where “grind culture” often reigns supreme, taking a moment for emotional release can feel like a radical act. But one woman’s creative take on crying in public has sparked a movement—and a surprising sense of community.
The Origin of @CryingInDC
Kiara McGowan, the creator of the TikTok account @cryingindc, is turning the act of crying in public into both an art form and a coping mechanism. Her account, which ranks the best places in D.C. for a good cry, began during what she describes as the “worst summer ever.” After losing her Capitol Hill job, McGowan faced homelessness and found herself crying frequently. A friend’s suggestion to channel her emotions into content led her to TikTok.
“It kind of started as a joke,” McGowan, 32, admits. But with over 6,000 followers and growing, her posts are resonating with people looking for safe spaces to process their feelings.
From TikTok to Community Events
Beyond social media, McGowan now organizes events that encourage emotional expression and mutual support. At a recent gathering at the Southwest Library, she handed out tissues packaged with the phrase, “Crying is a vibe.” The feedback has been overwhelmingly positive. Attendees expressed gratitude for the space to feel and connect.
Top Crying Spots in D.C.
For those seeking a cathartic moment in the city, McGowan recommends locations like Metro trains, The Yards, and Buzzard Point. Bodies of water, she says, offer a calming backdrop for reflection.
By normalizing crying in public and creating a community around it, McGowan shows that embracing vulnerability is not only okay—it can be transformative.
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