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1. YOU’RE ALWAYS THE FIRST TO TEXT HIM. He needs to be coming to you just as much as you’re going to him, otherwise, it’s never going to work.
2. YOU’RE BLATANTLY STALKING HIM ON SOCIAL MEDIA. It’s going to completely turn him off if he thinks you’re hanging onto everything he says and does all the time.
3. YOU ALWAYS ASK WHEN YOU’RE NEXT SEEING EACH OTHER. If you’re upsetting the balance so early on by trying to give him everything, what makes you think that it’s going to work out in the long run?
4. YOU DOUBLE TEXT HIM. If you don’t get a reply from your beau after a few hours, you feel like you have to text him again because you’re genuinely concerned that he’s not going to reply at all and you’re going to get ghosted. This is your old dating experiences coming back to haunt you and you need to stop assuming all guys are the same.
5. YOU GET ANNOYED AT HIM FOR A CANCELING A DATE. He might have a perfectly valid excuse, but you’re convinced he’s just trying to blow you off. If you accuse him of being a liar, then he’s likely going to run.
6. YOU FREAK OUT WHEN HE POSTS PICTURES WITH GIRLS ON SOCIAL MEDIA. Instead of assuming that he’s dating the girl he has his arm around in that pic where he’s in a bar with his friends, you’ve got to trust that there’s a perfectly good explanation.
7. YOU WON’T TAKE NO FOR AN ANSWER. Things can’t all be on your terms all the time as romantic relationships are about give and take.
8. YOU’RE JUMPING THE GUN. You need to let things naturally progress, and not try to force anything too early. No need to start planning a wedding after a few dates.
9. YOU WANT TO KNOW EVERY DETAIL OF THE TIME YOU’RE NOT SPENDING TOGETHER. It’s not fair to start bombarding him with messages because your ex-boyfriend cheated on you and you’re convinced that this guy is going to do the same thing.
10. YOU’RE NOT LETTING HIM MISS YOU. Take a step back and try not to let your insecurities ruin something that could be amazing.
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