Woman Struggling With Fertility Issues Finds Out Hubby Had A Vasectomy!
By @TobyChilliShow
We all know fertility issues can be devastating to women, especially if they really want to have a baby, but imagine finding out your inability to have a child is really due to your husband’s deceit? Well, that’s exactly what happened to one woman, who is now sharing her story on Reddit.
An anonymous woman took to the site to share that she has had 29 negative pregnancy tests, and while her three-year struggle to have a child was blamed on Polycystic Ovary Syndrome, she recently found out that the real reason is that her husband had a vasectomy and never told her.
“After three years of painful, invasive and expensive fertility treatment, I find out my husband had a vasectomy before we met,” she shared. “He let me endure 29 negative pregnancy tests and numerous hormone injections and he never thought to tell me.”
After confronting him the woman explained that the hubby got the vasectomy when he was married to his ex-wife because he was worried she’d get pregnant and he wouldn’t be able to leave. He told his new wife that he never told her about the snip snip, “because he loved me and was worried I would leave.”
She has now told him he either has to get it reversed, use a sperm donor or get a divorce, but she realizes that their marriage may not be destined to last. She notes, “I love him. But I'm broken. And given his lies, I think we are better off not married. I could still get donor sperm and honestly, that might be for the best.”
As you can imagine, Reddit users sympathized with the woman, with many encouraging her to leave him. “This guy is straight up TRASH. Certified absolute garbage,” one person wrote. “How do you let someone you supposedly love go through all that?,” while another added, “Good lord. I thought I'd seen some trash, but she's married to a freaking landfill.”