Do you ever find yourself engaging in "invidious comparison eating" or ICE? It's a phenomenon where individuals indirectly suggest that the dish they're enjoying is better than what they've been served by listing the superior qualities of another version, often their own. While this behavior can happen in various meal settings, it's particularly cringe-worthy when it takes place during a domestic gathering, like a dinner party.
Believe it or not, this concept of invidious comparison has been around for centuries. It often involves people attempting to distinguish themselves from others, especially concerning their social status and wealth. Even something as simple as food can become a battleground for asserting superiority.
Etiquette expert Nick Leighton offers some guidance on dealing with ICE. He suggests addressing it politely but directly or, alternatively, choosing to ignore it. Moreover, he advises being more thoughtful about your guest list in the future to avoid inviting individuals who tend to engage in such behavior.
The more you know.
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